Should a teacher and student wish to begin a sexually intimate relationship, three steps are required:
1. The couple should suspend the teacher-student relationship for a minimum of six months at the earliest recognition of mutual attraction and prior to any sexual contact. Prior to re- entering into a teacher-student relationship, they should discuss the relationship with the regional Head Zen Master.
2. At the earliest recognition of mutual attraction and prior to any sexual contact, the teacher should discuss the relationship with another teacher and receive guidance. In this way, the second teacher can witness the relationship from the perspective of concern for the student, teacher, and the entire sangha.
3. The regional Head Zen Master should be notified about the relationship at the earliest possible date.